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Julie Vogler, coach and writer

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Julie Vogler, writer

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Trauma Bonds are NOT about Shared Pain

Jan 203 min read

Trauma Bonds are NOT about Shared Pain

Romanticizing the idea of trauma bonds as connection through shared pain obscures the reality of what they really are: dysfunction and abuse

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Escaping the Snow Globe Trap

Dec 28, 202410 min read

Escaping the Snow Globe Trap

Changing Generational Patterns Changing the Story for the Next Generation In the recently released movie Red One , there's a scene that...

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What Makes Us Susceptible (Breadcrumbing Pt. 3)

Sep 10, 20249 min read

What Makes Us Susceptible (Breadcrumbing Pt. 3)

Scarcity masked as abundance skews our calibration, priming us to normalize the bare minimum.

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My Descent into Starvation (Breadcrumbing Pt 2)

Sep 3, 20247 min read

My Descent into Starvation (Breadcrumbing Pt 2)

By accepting breadcrumbs, I had justified the doling out of love until it was just a drip, which was covert emotional abuse.

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Subsisting on Love Crumbs (Breadcrumbing Pt 1)

Sep 2, 20243 min read

Subsisting on Love Crumbs (Breadcrumbing Pt 1)

Love starvation: when your partner gives you just enough love to keep you hooked...

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Hurt Versus Harm and Pandora's Box

Jul 29, 20248 min read

Hurt Versus Harm and Pandora's Box

Consequences of lying by omission is loss of trust which harms the relationship and destroys love.

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Gut or Ghost

Jul 25, 20244 min read

Gut or Ghost

When you're angry, agitated, anxious, or afraid, how do you know if it's your intuition warning you or if the present situation is...

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Calm is Code for Functional Freeze

Jul 9, 20246 min read

Calm is Code for Functional Freeze

Unaware we are even numb, we operate...and even love...on autopilot.

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Every Man For Himself

Jul 1, 20249 min read

Every Man For Himself

My whole body went rigid. My lips tingled. I didn’t look over at my boyfriend. I think I forgot he was even there. I was all alone, trapped

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Long Distance Nice Guys

Jun 21, 202412 min read

Long Distance Nice Guys

Distance can conceal a man's identity from his romantic partner when he is afraid of being fully known. When his dual reality collides, how

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A New and Unexplored World

Sep 8, 20233 min read

A New and Unexplored World

“Well, I think I’m too gentle to live among wolves. I brought you here today because it’s my 5 year anniversary from the day I chose death…”

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Independence Day

Aug 25, 20233 min read

Independence Day

As I loaded the kids’ belongings into the car, my eyes were drawn to the rebel firework overhead and I thanked God it was Independence Day.

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Minimalist Sets

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Minimalist Sets

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Minimalist Sets

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Minimalist Sets

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

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Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

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Business Title

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Wooden
Tables

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Business Title

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Wooden
Tables

3

Business Title

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Wooden
Tables

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Wooden
Tables

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Wooden
Tables

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Wooden
Tables

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Wooden
Tables

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Wooden
Tables

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Wooden
Tables

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Wooden
Tables

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Wooden
Tables

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Wooden
Tables

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Wooden
Tables

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

Wooden
Tables

Cormorant Garamond is a classic font with a modern twist. It's easy to read on screens of every shape and size, and perfect for long blocks of text.

Julie Vogler, coach and writer

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