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Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach

Debrief & Reset

for One-Sided Relationships

Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach
Sunset Skies
Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach
Are You Tired
of Talking to
a Wall?

Do you find yourself over-explaining your feelings and shouldering all the emotional labor, only to be met with responses that derail genuine conversation?

 

Whether your partner twists your words into a defensive posture, shuts down completely, or resorts to fawning just to keep the peace—you’re left feeling frustrated, unheard, and overwhelmed.

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The Three Response Patterns You Face:

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​​​Posture:

He becomes defensive, distorting your message and turning your honest expressions into a battleground—exacerbating the cycle of over-explaining.

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Collapse:

He shuts down—freezing, walking away, or ghosting—leaving you to manage the emotional labor on your own with no resolution.

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Fawn:

He appeases by simply agreeing, masking deeper issues and reinforcing a dynamic where you end up over-explaining to be heard.​

Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach
Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach
Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach

These patterns not only drain your energy but also leave you stuck in a cycle where your genuine needs are continuously sidelined.

Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach

Clarity & Insight:

Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach

Strategies & Empowerment

Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach

Future-Focused

Change

Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach
Sunset Skies
In this 45-min  Session you will:
Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach
Debrief Your Communication Patterns:
Uncover the hidden dynamics behind your partner’s defensive, collapsing, or fawning responses and understand why you end up over-explaining.
Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach
Reset Your Approach:
Learn precise, actionable strategies to express your needs clearly and assertively—even in the face of deflection, silence, or feigned agreement.
Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach
Establish Empowering Boundaries:
Develop the language and tactics to break free from circular, draining conversations and create space for genuine connection.
Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach
Practice in a Safe Environment:
Optionally engage in live role-play to build confidence and prepare for real-life interactions.

Is This For You?

If you’re exhausted by the frustration of talking to a wall—where every conversation leaves you feeling isolated and overwhelmed—this session is designed to help you begin understanding and addressing those patterns. It's your essential first step toward a healthier communication dynamic.
Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach
Julie Connection Specialist, Relationship Coach

Understand the underlying patterns that keep you stuck in these unbalanced interactions.

Equip yourself with practical tools to handle defensive, collapsing, and fawning responses.

Reclaim your voice and set clear boundaries that protect your emotional well-being.

Lay the groundwork for healthier, more balanced interactions in every conversation.

Julie Vogler Coaching
Julie Vogler

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